I know February is a short month but really, where did it go?! We started the month with our usual conversation, H: "Do you think the company is going to make us move soon?", K: "I don't know, I am not going to say anything until they do!", H: "Ok, good with me, I like that plan!". Since May of 2010 that has been our almost weekly conversation. Our questions were answered in mid-February. We talked to the company and the company said, "come on up!" so we managed to get an offer on our house (we had to price aggressively, sorry neighbors, the comps are now WAY down) and with some negotiation we accepted and here we are in NJ looking for a new house. Notice I say house and not a home. Kevin uses the term "home" to talk about a house. Most of you know what I mean. To me, a house is a structure - it is all about the brick and mortar and the cosmetics and appearance. A home, is "where the heart is," where your family is (cheesy but something we have learned on this journey). And even tough we are leaving our family to survive on their own in Arkansas (I think they will do just fine for themselves!) we are picking up and moving our family of three to a new "house." A house in the Northeast part of the country, a place we know very little about (this is my second time here) but a place we are very excited about. Just a train ride from NYC, we have big plans to visit there often and give Arden experiences a lot of people only wish they had. Our family of three is going to make a new "home," and we couldn't be more excited (and scared) of the new life we are going to experience together. Lots of quality time will be had by the three of us and for Kevin and I we couldn't think of anything better. I will keep you updated on our house hunting, day one helped us get down to a short list but tomorrow will be the big decision day after seeing a few more properties. Wish us luck!
In current news around the Shipp "house," Arden got a hair cut! Wow. I drug my heels on this one. I WAS. NOT. going to get her hair cut at this young of an age but when push came to shove it had to be done. After Doug and Mary Beth got engaged I said I would get her hair cut "before the wedding," but the more I thought about it a little trim now and maybe one more before the wedding wasn't a bad idea. I know a lot of moms would be excited for their daughters to have enough hair to cut at 16.5 months but it just broke my heart. I didn't cry though! I really prepared myself with the idea and called Aunt Mary Beth to ask her if she could do it before I could back out. It wasn't an overall cut just a little cleaning up on the back of her neck. But when I called Mary Beth to ask her sweet Mary Beth said "Are you sure? Have you really been thinking about this?" - I love some MB! It needed to be done, the mullet stage was pretty much gone but the out-of-control stage was becoming an everyday thing and even wetting it and combing it was almost a lost cause. So MB made a house call and was awesome with Arden who overall wasn't interested in what was happening with her hair but was not wanting to be bothered while watching Backyardigans (yes, she was watching Backyardigans AGAIN...
Nickelodeon, please call me if you need a spokesperson, Arden is IN!). I don't have a really good before picture but this is the after picture...who would not LOVE this bob with side bangs and natural flip in the back ;)?!
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| {arden gave a profile view so you could check out her curl! really she was just watching Backyardigans and was not interested in the camera! but really, how cute is the haircut?!} |
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| {arden and mb after the major bonding moment of the haircut! arden doesn't know how lucky she is to have her mb!} |
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| {post-haircut arden was very chill...i mean it is such a hard life to have your stylist come to your house and update your 'do while you watch your favorite show and eat snacks!} |
Other than that we spent February trying to survive the snow (I have to throw out there that here in NJ I have only seen a few piles of snow which gives me hope that it doesn't last forever here, although I am fully aware there will probably be one more snow before spring is really here!).
My little brother (I should say younger since I am shorter than he is!) got engaged on Valentine's Day! He didn't want to be the cliche couple that got engaged on Valentine's Day but after a little trouble finding the ring in the mail he decided it was time! I am so proud of him and CAN'T. WAIT. until the big day (August 13th!). He and MB are so lucky to have each other and she has been part of the family for a long time but now it is going to be official ;). They are both so lucky to have each other and we know they will have many, many years of happiness together.
A few random pics we have:
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| {not sure why we took this pic but i have a feeling i was trying to entertain arden and she LOVES seeing her face on the iphone so we snapped a quick pic!} |
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| {when arden was younger and she saw the phone in her face she would smile as if she knew she was a model on a photoshoot....well, she is still the model but the photoshoot has come down to us begging for a smile and for her to look at the camera. i guess this is a candid pic of her dressed before church in this precious purple dress while watching, you guessed it backyardigans!} |
Hugs,
Kevin, Hillary and Arden